WHEN THE SUNSHINE FADES, WHO WILL REMAIN?

When you are healthy you feel invincible, independent and less likely to feel sympathy for those that are ill. When you are healthy you go about your daily life; you work out, see your friends and family, enjoy the beautiful weather and ultimately just live.  

However when you become ill, life stops and you begin to view life through a different lens. Everything and everyone continues to move around you at their regular pace, and you are left by yourself to deal with your own misery. You might have some friends and family 'check in' on you, but the reality is, you are left to deal with the pain and the slow process of getting better all by yourself. 

It is not that your friends and family don't care about you, it's just that as humans, it is hard to put your life on hold to care for another when you yourself are healthy and have things you wish to do. Caring for another is somewhat a subconscious inconvenience. 

What if it is not simply a common cold, but something more severe where you require assistance from others on a more permanent basis. For instance, you are incapable of 2 daily acts of living and require the help of a caregiver. Or worse, you have become mentally incompetent to care for yourself. 

Don't assume that your spouse, your parents, or siblings will fill this role of caretaker for you (although you hope they would)  The reality is, just because life has stopped for you because of your illness, if they are healthy and able bodied they still have their own life to live and worry about.

This is why it is so important to make sure you have your Advanced Directives in place while you are healthy and able to make the decision for yourself. That includes your Durable Power of Attorney, Healthcare Surrogate and Living Will. You can even go so far as taking the burden away from your loved ones, by having a Long Term Care Insurance policy.

“Love me when I am healthy, but love me more when I am ill. Those that remain when the sunshine fades are the ones I want in my world”

Durable Power of Attorney: Name someone to manage your financial affairs either immediately or in the future should you become unable to do so yourself. 

Healthcare Surrogate: Name someone to act on your behalf if you become unable to make medical decisions for yourself.

Living Will: Document that will state how and if you want to prolong your life if you fall into a vegetative state

Long Term Care Insurance: Long-term care is care that you need if you can no longer perform everyday tasks (activities of daily living) by yourself due to chronic illness, injury or the aging process.  Long-term care is not only for the elderly. A large percentage of people receiving long-term care are under the age of 65.

“Caring for another is somewhat a subconscious inconvenience ”

You need to have an open discussion with whomever you wish to fill those roles and make sure they want to take on that responsibility for you. 

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs.

REMEMBER: You can’t predict the future, but you can plan for it.
 

PROCRASTION: THE ABILITY TO WITHSTAND THE URGE TO DO ANYTHING PRODUCTIVE.

Being a 'pro' at anything is something to be proud of. That means you are very talented. If you are an athlete, you would want to be a pro-athlete.  When it comes to estate planning, it is not an advantage if you have retained and maintain a 'pro' status when it comes to procrastinating.

To say you never procrastinate, is a lie.  Don't kid yourself. Everyone has fallen victim to the 'dark playground'. After all, the fact that you are reading this article means you are currently in the 'dark playground' and avoiding doing things that are actually on your 'to do list' (which I kindly appreciate and in this instance, I am more than happy to see that you are procrastinating)

“Stop being a ‘pro’crastinor and be ‘pro’active when it comes to your estate planning. There is no guarantee there will be a tomorrow, so prepare today.”

When it comes to estate planning, procrastinating should never be an option. It eventually causes family fighting and the chance of losing a portion of your estate to creditors. 

Great example of how procrastinating can cause more problems than expected.

Sonny Bono, passed away at the age of 62 due to complications from injuries sustained in a skiing accident. At the time of his death, Bono passed away with no estate planning, not even a simple will.  Fights ensued, due to the fact Bono had multiple marriages and children from each of those marriages. Even worse, at the time of his death, a secret love child surfaced wanting a piece of Bono's estate.

If Bono had not procrastinated and prepared his estate planning documents, he could have clearly stated who would and who would not receive from his estate (including a statement excluding any possible 'love children').

Stop being a 'pro'crastinor and be 'pro'active when it comes to your estate planning. There is no guarantee there will be a tomorrow, so prepare today.

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach county contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs. You can’t predict the future, but you can plan for it.

Why We Procrastinate About Estate Planning

A lot of people have not participated in any meaningful estate planning. Most people will admit that it is something they need to do, but keep putting it off. What is the reason?

Listed below are some common reasons why we procrastinate about estate planning:

 (1) It is expensive

The reality is, most people do not have extra money lying around these days. However, not doing anything can end up costing your loved ones much more than it would cost you to plan now.

If you own assets in your name and you become incapacitated due to illness or injury, you (your assets and your care) will likely be placed in a court guardianship. This is not free. All costs (attorney fees, accounting fees, court costs, etc) will be paid from your assets and your family will probably have to ask the court for an allowance if they need money for living expenses.

This process does not replace probate when you die; your family will have to go through the court system again, and that means more expenses and less for your family. Your assets will be distributed according to Florida law, which probably won't be what you would have wanted.

Estate planning does not have to be expensive. You can start off with a simple will and then later upgrade to a trust when you can afford it.

 (2) " I do not own enough"

Estate planning is not just for the wealthy. In fact, costs for a court guardianship and probate usually take a higher percentage from smaller estates (which can least afford it) than from larger ones.  Even if you own a small amount, you would prefer to see it go to your loved ones than to courts and attorneys.

 (3) " I am not old enough"

Estate planning is important for everyone (ages 18-100).  Young people seem to think they are going to live forever. The reality is, that any of us, at any age, can become incapacitated or die due to an illness, injury, accident, or random act of violence. (Just read the newspaper or watch the evening news, you will see random acts of violence on a daily basis)

“Estate planning does not have to be expensive. You can start off with a simple will and then later upgrade to a trust when you can afford it.”

 (4) It is too confusing. I do not know what to do:

Attorneys are called ' counselors at law' for a reason. An experienced estate planning attorney knows what other families have been through, knows what has worked well, and what has not. An experienced attorney can help you understand the process and make challenging decisions easier.

 So why do we need estate planning?

·       To make sure our assets will go the people we want to have them with the least amount of delay, hassle and expense

·       To keep our families from having to deal with the courts if we become incapacitated and when we die

·       Let our families know that we care about them, that we want to provide for them and protect them.

·       We do it for love--but the huge benefit of estate planning: PEACE OF MIND

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach county contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs. 

YOU CAN'T PREDICT THE FUTURE, BUT YOU CAN PLAN FOR IT!

Schools Out For Summer

Schools Out For Summer. If you are able to say that without singing Alice Cooper's version, you are a better man than I.

It is the three (3) months of the year that college kids get into a little (or a lot) of trouble. No real responsibilities, young summer love, and lots of traveling.

Since you can't stop your 'children' from making bad decisions, make sure they are prepared in case they do.

If you have 'children' between the ages of 18 and 24 make sure they have a Durable Power of Attorney, Healthcare Surrogate and Living Will prepared in case of an emergency. Without these documents, parents and loved ones are helpless.

Durable Power of Attorney:

Name someone to manage your financial affairs either immediately or in the future should you lack the capacity to do so yourself.

Healthcare Surrogate:

Name someone to make medical decisions on your behalf if you are unable to make them yourself.

“Since you can’t stop your ‘children’ from making bad decisions, make sure they are prepared in case they do.”

Living Will:

Document that will state how and if you want to prolong your life if you fall into a vegetative state. 

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs. You can’t predict the future, but you can plan for it.

Warning: Do Not Draft Your Own Power of Attorney

So you decided it was important to have an estate plan. However, you decided to find forms online and fill in the blanks yourself.  One of the forms you filled in was a Power of Attorney. You wanted to make sure that when you were no longer able to make financial decisions for yourself (incapacitated), that you named a trusted person to make those decisions on your behalf.

            What happens if you become incapacitated and your family needs to take your Power of Attorney to the bank to gain access to your accounts and they are denied? Why would a bank deny a Power of Attorney?

Two reasons why banks sometimes reject a Power of Attorney (POA):

(1) It is not 'durable': If a Power of Attorney is not a 'durable' POA then it is only valid while the principal (the person who signed the document and is appointing someone else- their 'agent' to act on their behalf) is of sound mind.

‘Durable’ means the POA continues to be effective after the incapacitation of the principal.

BEWARE: People who find a POA form online do not realize the significance of it needing to be a 'durable' power of attorney. They tend to draft a POA that is not durable and end up with a useless document.

“Think twice about saving money by drafting your own estate planning documents. A short term saving can often turn into a greater expense in the long run.”

(2) It has not been activated: The POA may be 'springing'. This simply means that it only becomes effective upon the incapacitation of the principal. Typically it will require a physician to examine the principal and determine they are no longer capable of managing their affairs due to mental incapacity. If that is the case, the bank will want to see the physician's letter before accepting the POA.

BEWARE: As of October 1, 2011, in Florida  'springing' powers will only be effective for a POA drafted before October 1, 2011. If someone drafts his or her own POA online with a springing power it will be deemed ineffective.

How To Handle Power of Attorney Problems with Banks

Even with a properly prepared POA, you might run into problems with trying to get banks and other financial institutions to recognize the form's validity. Banks are sometimes nervous to allow access to a customer's accounts for fear of a lawsuit if they allow access to the wrong person or even the right person under the wrong circumstances.

Think twice about saving money by drafting your own estate planning documents. A short term saving can often turn into a greater expense in the long run.

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach counties contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs. You can’t predict the future, but you can plan for it.

Children Do Not Inherit Until Both Parents Pass Away

One day you are at the beach in Fort Lauderdale when you get a call from your mother saying that your father passed away. Most people would break down in tears and cry. However, you had a horrible relationship with your father your whole life.  Instead, you get a big grin on your face. Your dad had a lot of money and now you are ready to collect. After all, you were his son, even with the bad relationship there is no way your father would have disinherited you.

It hurts to say this, but you will receive nothing while your mother is still alive. If one parent has passed away while the other is still alive, the answer is simple: the money is first inherited by the spouse.

In Florida when married people create estate plans, they typically ask for the money to go to their surviving spouse. The purpose behind this is to make sure their spouse is taken care of.  If there are children under the age of 18, this allows the spouse to comfortably provide for the children. There are some circumstances that a child under 18 might receive money in the form of a trust. With that said, the spouse is often put in charge of the trust until the child reaches 18.

It is extremely rare for adult children to receive any kind of inheritance until both parents have passed away. The reason for this is not to make the children feel cheated, but it is to help ensure that the needs of the living parent are not a burden or concern for the adult children.

“If one parent has passed away while the other is still alive, the answer is simple: the money is first inherited by the spouse.”

If you live in Miami-Dade, Broward, or Palm Beach counties it is time to start preparing your estate-planning portfolio. Make sure your spouse and children are taken care of when you are gone. You can’t predict the future, but you can plan for it.

Contact an experienced estate-planning attorney at The Hershey Law Firm, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, at (954) 303-9468 to discuss your estate planning needs.

Pay It Forward

Estate Planning benefits those that survive you, not you. Make sure you plan to help those that deserve to receive from you.

Estate planning is the ultimate “pay it forward” technique one human being can do for another. You can work your whole life and become extremely successful. You want to be able to share the fruits of your labor with those closest to you. Give to those that supported you through out your journey.

You want to make sure your spouse is taken care of when you are no longer here to do it in person. You want to make sure your children can achieve their goals and become successful members of society as well. 

“Estate planning +asset protection is a way to safely house your assets and make sure they grow over time and not have them taken away by creditors or the government.”

A parent leads by example. If you teach your children the joys of helping others, you are able to keep your family assets growing even after your passing for generations to come.  People often say, ‘the rich get richer’. That can be achieved with proper planning.   

In order to protect your assets, not only is estate planning necessary, you must diversify your assets as well. You will want to build a portfolio that will allow your assets to grow throughout your lifetime and continue after your passing.  It is highly recommended to try to make it as tax efficient as possible.

Estate planning +asset protection is a way to safely house your assets and make sure they grow over time and not have them taken away by creditors or the government.

You should seek the advice of an experienced estate planning attorney in Fort Lauderdale, Florida to help you properly plan for the future through creative estate planning and asset protection techniques. Contact the Hershey Law Firm, P.A. in Fort Lauderdale Florida at (954) 303-9468 to schedule your free consultation.